In times of catastrophe like these. We need to bond together and pray. The best thing you can do right now is send prayers. No one can bring back any one's loved ones by complaining and blaming people. These are horrible tragedies that have happened to people all around the world. Somehow we are all connected and not only is this affecting Japan it is affecting all the people that are connected to someone there.
Do not think that your prayers won't count. If we are all praying for those around us, you will definitely see a change. Nothing is going to help the hurt than more than love. People don't need to hear any advice on what they should have done or what they did not do. This is a very sensitive time for many. A lot of people have lost someone dear to them and all the complaining any finger pointing just adds to the hurt.
Lets do something positive and pray for them. Not only can we pray for those that have been affected we can also Donate to the Salvation Army https://secure20.salvationarmy.org/donation.jsp We can Donate to the Red Cross https://american.redcross.org/site/SPageServer?pagename=ggl_main&gclid=CPbphsLVyacCFQsGbAodBlavDg
Take the time out to say a prayer for all those affected by this disaster. God Bless